Sep 042014
 
  • Waking up while it’s light, getting home while it’s light
  • The invention of glasses (and contacts)
  • Cheese
  • Someone singing to themselves in the street (could be me…)
  • Here is to hoping that at least -someone- will get the reference

    Here is to hoping that at least -someone- will get the reference

  • A photograph of some place beautiful I went to
  • Remembering a time before the internet (yeah, I’m old…)
  • The fact that so many people feel the need to write a book (never shy for something to read)
  • A message from an old friend that you didn’t expect
  • People moving far away so I can come and visit them
  • Squirrels
  • Ties (mostly when taking them off)
  • The boomerang. Think about it, how cool is that?
  • Maps. And the implication of how much there is left to explore
  • Hearing Spanish in the street and almost understanding what is being said
  • Friends throwing parties
  • Getting lost and finding something unexpected that you never would have found otherwise
  • A meeting that gets canceled, so I can get some actual work done
  • Someone planning a meeting so I get a moment’s break from the boring work
  • The sun reflected on water. With a duck
  • The sound that freshly fallen snow makes when you walk on it
  • Finally getting it right
  • Quantum physics (I don’t see economists putting cats in boxes to proof their theories!)
  • Semi colons
  • Being too ill to go to work but not ill enough to feel really bad (don’t want to infect the others you see…)
  • Writing random things to be grateful for and have other people read them…
  • Hats
  • Hugs
  • Being the first to tell someone the good news

Take a moment. What random things are you grateful for?


Bastiaan ReininkI’m Bastiaan. This blog is meant to give you some insight into the things I run into and perhaps to inspire you to go in search of your own life extraordinaire.

I love to connect, so if you have thoughts, ideas or questions based on this (or another) post, please leave me a comment!

Aug 272014
 

What’s the worst mistake you made in your life? Or, if you could go back in time to change one thing (in your own life), what would it be?

Ok, probably she would've been scared out of her panties (hehe) if I had this in store for her...

Ok, probably she would’ve been scared out of her panties (hehe) if I had this in store for her…

I like thought experiments like this, the “alternate history”. What path might my live have taken if I had kissed that girl (I was 16 and way too shy)…?

Two things.

First: I’m happy with my life (well, mostly) and I wouldn’t want to run the risk of ruining what I have now by changing the course of history in such a way that I end up somewhere completely different (those who have seen “The butterfly effect” or “Sliding doors” should know what I mean).

Second: When is something a mistake? If you look back on an action (and it’s subsequent string of reactions) and you’re not happy with the outcome? But that’s too easy, as everybody can predict the past.

Given the information you had at the point of deciding, would it have been logical / reasonable to have made a different decision? If so, then yes, it was a (very stupid!) mistake. But most of the time, it’s not. You take the information you have and you do what you think is best at that moment. It doesn’t always come out the way you expected (much less hoped for), but does that make it a mistake? Personally, I think not. It’s just the unpredictability of the universe making itself felt (which is a good thing too, imagine that the future was perfectly predictable. How boring!). You learn from it and you move on.

It does happen though that you make a decision you know is not in your best interest. I should have kissed that girl and I knew at the time that I should and I did regret not doing so. My emotions hijacked me from doing the “right” thing (fear in this case).

Would you change anything from your past if you could? And if so, what?
But even here we deserve some lee-way. Fighting against your own fear (or other emotions) sounds very nice on paper, but is extremely difficult in practice. Who has never stood there in front of a beautiful girl (or guy, if you’re so inclined), knowing what you wanted (and quite sure what she (he) wanted), yet did nothing? Should you beat yourself up over your stupid mistake?

I think it’s better to take this as anything else that the universe throws you that doesn’t go quite your way: Learn from it and move on.

I did learn. Not too long after, this horrible mistake still fresh in my memory I had another chance and (after due courage-finding) I took it. A kiss never tasted sweeter…


Bastiaan ReininkI’m Bastiaan. This blog is meant to give you some insight into the things I run into and perhaps to inspire you to go in search of your own life extraordinaire.

I love to connect, so if you have thoughts, ideas or questions based on this (or another) post, please leave me a comment!

May 282014
 

Tomorrow is ascension day (it has something to do with some dead religious guy, don’t really know (ok, I actually do, I just don’t care)). A national holiday. And I’ll be spending it at work.

Even if you're just a little cog, you can still be fabulous!

Even if you’re just a little cog, you can still be fabulous!

First, I’m very happy that I can plan my own work, even if it is a national holiday (one of the sucky ones though, so I’m not missing out). Sure, not working is great, but I just have to finish something!

Which is silly!

I work at a bank for crying out loud. What could possibly go wrong (in the bigger scheme of things) if I did not build some formulas in Excel, did not copy-paste the resulting pictures to Powerpoint and did not E-mail them round.

I’m confident that nobody would die. I’m quite sure that nobody would even eat a bite less. Though some people might lose some sleep over it… Me, for one…

There is this thing called “sense of responsibility”. And I’ve got it aplenty (too much perhaps?) I said I would, so I’m going to do it (dammit!).

Nobody would die or get hurt if I don’t. But people may be disappointed if I don’t do as I said. And we’re hardwired to dislike disappointing about as much as getting physically hurt.

Which (in the bigger scheme of things) is very handy. It means that we do stuff even though (on a micro level) they are silly (like building Excel formulas).

Though our society isn’t (exactly) built upon people pushing numbers back and forth in spreadsheets, it is one of those tiny cogs that keeps the big machine running smoothly. Sure, we could do without a lot of those tiny cogs and nothing bad would seem to happen (for a while). But at some level, they do add up (pun intended).

The other day I was at a pub and they told me that it was made by monks and that they were not allowed to make a profit. Thus, all profit went to charity: Improving the world by drinking beer… Life is good!
The numbers I push around lead to understanding the outcomes from a model, which help to convince the world that the bank I work at is a safe place, which means that people will keep their savings there, which allows the bank to lend money, which can be used to start new businesses, so that more people have a job, allowing them to earn money, to put food upon the table.

Yes, it’s indirect. Yes, the world could do without me in particular. But me and you and the rest of the world do help (in our own tiny way) to keep things ticking along. So that (somewhere down the road) people get to eat.

Even better: Those people are you and me!


Bastiaan ReininkI’m Bastiaan. I write this blog to give you some insight into the things I run into and perhaps to inspire you to go in search of your own life extraordinaire.

I love to connect, so if you have thoughts, ideas or questions based on this (or another) post, please leave me a comment!

May 252014
 

When I was young there was this really cool new thing, The Internet (yes, I’m old enough to remember a time before there was internet…). And let me tell you, it was awesome! You could visit these pages that people made about anything. Even better, you could make your own pages in which you could tell the world: Heed me, for I exist! (This was obviously done linking to your friends and putting bad poetry online).

No comment...

No comment…

It was a small step, but it was the beginning of a big journey. Anybody can share any information they want, we can communicate with everybody. And all of this without the intervention of traditional companies like the postal services or encyclopedia sellers. Decentralized. Bottom-up.

Where the internet was the beginning (and in many cases the enabler), we now see a whole range of such bottom-up possibilities coming into being.

You have a good idea? Bypass the traditional finance system and get your investment money through crowd-funding. Perhaps you can even do this with money that is not under the auspices of any central bank (bitcoin and the likes). And if you need some stuff to make your idea work, simply 3d-print it yourself!

The internet: Toppler of regimes (Middle East) and provider of porn. Life is stranger than fiction…
Information, communication, money (twice!), production. When we want it, the way we want it. All of winch is bringing power to whomever is interested in taking it. Not power in the traditional sense, over other people, but much more power over our own lives. Power in the sense of freedom from established institutions.

Personally, I foresee a beautiful future!


Bastiaan ReininkI’m Bastiaan. I write this blog to give you some insight into the things I run into and perhaps to inspire you to go in search of your own life extraordinaire.

I love to connect, so if you have thoughts, ideas or questions based on this (or another) post, please leave me a comment!

Mar 192014
 

The bad stuff that happens to us (and others) is what is most interesting.

Boo for politics!

Boo for politics!

On the one hand this is nice: Something dreadful that happened to us turns into a wonderful adventure with the passing of time.

On the other hand this has a proclivity of confronting us with mostly negatives: War in the Krim, oil spills in Africa, corrupt politicians in our own back yard.

Getting confronted with the negatives, in the news and through our own personal stories, creates an availability bias; we are biased to believe that those things which are generally “available” are in fact common. Because every murder is big news, every war is shown on prime time, we come to believe that murder and war are all around us.

Statistically however this is far from true: The number of murders has been very steadily declining (at least here in the Netherlands) and the number of wars and other armed conflicts is at an all time low.

Today there are elections for the Dutch municipalities. I’m not voting: I don’t know what is going on and given that we live in a slow-moving democracy I don’t really need to. If big changes happen I believe that I can change right along (perhaps even benefit). I do feel that this precludes me from griping about the stupid things that politicians do, but as a) I don’t like to gripe anyway and b) I don’t actually know what they do (wrong) anyway, I can’t.
And yet we feel more and more unsafe…

The solution? Stop feeding the availability bias.

I haven’t watched the news for over 10 years now (due to not owning a television). When I read the news (either online or because I found a newspaper) I concentrate on the economic news (because that is handy for my work and actually does get reported when things are going better) and the comics. Death, war, pollution, politics: There is very little I can do about these anyway so why would I need to know about them? And if there is anything truly important or big, it will get to me through the collective consciousness (i.e. people talking about it).

They say you are what you eat. The same is true for mental food. So why not throw out all the negative and bad stuff and just consume that which is good for you (i.e. makes you happy)?

Boo for politics. Yay for comics!