I like moving houses.Or better, I like helping other people move house.
There is something satisfying about lugging boxes and heavy object about, to taking apart furniture and putting it back together at another location. It’s good to share being active with a bunch of people, especially if they’re friends (I probably will not come and help you if you’re a random stranger reading this on the internet!). There is usually take-away and beer at the end of the day, to be shared with your (new found) friends. Not unimportant, when you help people move, they are much more likely to come and help you when you need to move (or need help with anything else).
But most of all, helping another makes you feel nice about yourself!
Or generalizing that: Being good feels good.
And as I like feeling good, I thought it would be interesting to see whether I can make use of this more. Therefore, my experiment for the coming time: Be good to other people.
- Giving compliments
- Being constructive in work meetings
- Helping people out (anybody moving any time soon?)
- Smiling to random strangers
- Surprising my girlfriend
- Organizing things for friends
- Making time to visit family
- Sending out a friendly e-mail once and awhile (just did. It feels good! )
I’ll let you know in due time what my observations are.
And perhaps you could take a moment as well to do something good (really, an e-mail is very quick to be sent!)?
I’m Bastiaan. This blog is meant to give you some insight into the things I run into and perhaps to inspire you to go in search of your own life extraordinaire.
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